Do you have questions for your partner that you haven’t asked or even remembered before? Here are 100 questions to ask your partner, and you can find some questions here and the rest for free in the Lifelong Relationship app, which is also free.


What do you see as your biggest challenge right now?

What effect does that have on you?

Can we support each other through this?



Name 3 things that are romantic to you!

What would you like to see more of in our relationship?

What place is the epitome of romance for you?



What role does sex play for you?

On a scale of 1 (little) to 10 (a lot), how important is sex to you?

For unmarried people: How do you feel about waiting until marriage to have sex?

Victories and defeats

How do you deal with defeats?

What was the biggest victory of your life?

How have you dealt with victories and defeats in your family?


Partnership and marriage

What does it mean to you to be married?

How do you imagine an ideal marriage?

What do you think about the phrase “Till death do us part!”?



Is there something that stands between us?

Is there a secret between us?

How should we deal with secrets?



How would you imagine the ideal birthday to be?

How did you celebrate your birthday as a child?

Who are the people you would like to have with you?


Our love story

How did you fall in love?

What was the first thing you noticed about your partner?

Tell each other the story of how you met.



What hobbies do you love most?

How can we incorporate these hobbies into our schedule?

What could we learn together as a couple?



Who is the person you trust the most?

Has anyone ever betrayed your trust?

What would destroy your trust?


Family History

How did you used to spend holidays in your family?

How did you celebrate Christmas?

Would you like to see such holidays in our partnership?


Respect and love

Do you find it easy to say “no”? 100 questions for your partner

What behavior do you wish your partner would do to make you feel respected and loved?


Declaration of love

Name 3 things you especially love about your partner.

What qualities do you admire in your partner? 100 questions for your partner