Whether you’ve been together for a while or just recently, there are always questions to ask your partner. Are you looking for inspiration?

Here are some questions for you to ask your partner – straightforward and genuine. For more daily inspirations download the free Lifelongapp.


Do you ever feel rejected because your partner is on their phone too much?

What do you think about a “cell phone-free time”?

How could you implement this concretely?


Mood meter

Which conversations are especially important to you?

What do you need at the moment?

How could I help you?


Future plans

What do you think about children?

And how should we raise them?

What values should your children definitely learn?


Countries and cultures

Do you like to travel?

What places would you like to see?

Could you imagine living in any of these places?


Family History

What is your relationship with your parents?

What is your relationship with your siblings?

Have grandmas and grandpas played a role in your life?



Tell each other a secret you’ve never told anyone.

Who are the people who know the most about you?

Do you find it easy to keep secrets?



Who would you consider your best friends?

Have friends ever let you down?

What do you think about the statement: friends come and go?


Role models and ideals

What people do you admire?

What is special about them?

Do you have any specific role models in your life?


Expanding my skills

What have you always wanted to learn?

Why have you never done it?

Could we do this together?



How do you feel right now – really?

What’s stressing you out right now?

How could I better support you?


Life dreams

What is your greatest wish for the future?

What would you do if time and money were no object?

What prevents you from fulfilling your dream?


Our partnership

What do you want from a relationship?

What can you not imagine?

What is extremely important to you? Questions for your partner-deep and real



What was the funniest experience of your childhood?

What was difficult for you as a child?

What did you want to be when you were a child?

Who am I?

Imagine you were an animal, which animal would you most like to be?


What animal would you describe your partner as?



How do you feel about loyalty and honesty?

Which values are particularly important to you?

What do freedom and independence mean to you?


My everyday life

What did you experience today?

What was the disaster of the week?

What was the best thing you experienced this week?


Future plans

What is your biggest wish for the next year?

What would you do if you knew it would work?

How can we make this work? Questions for your partner-deep and real