Managing Crises in the Relationship

The struggle for boundaries Suddenly you realize that the other person is not perfect after all. The limited view dissolves. One realizes that the idealization of the partner does not correspond to reality. The partners now have to decide whether or not they can cope...

5 relationship killers The young marriage

The young marriage   You don’t get 25 years of marriage for nothing. Sometimes the price is very high. But it is always worth it.In the first part of this series I discussed the challenges of the first years. Now you’re married. But even on your honeymoon, new...

5 relationship killers in the Midlife Crisis

Part 3: The Midlife Crisis   My husband and I are celebrating our silver wedding anniversary this year. I can’t say for sure if we’ve been through the midlife crisis completely, but I’ve had a few years of experience. Also in the coaching of other couples....